So far my travels in Vietnam have included Hanoi, Cat Ba, and Hue. Today, we just arrived in Hoi An after two busses and about 4 1/2 hrs of travel time from Hue. Along most of the trip, the second bus was honking his rather loud horn. It’s what they do here. When passing vehicles, there is always honking involve. Trouble is… there is always passing involved. The horn may as well of been hooked up to a intermittent switch such as windshield wipers are. Oh well. At least I was not spending 21 hours on a sleeping bus such as my new friend, Fernan, was doing to get to Laos.
Each place has it’s merits but so far, I think Cat Ba is the place that I’ve had the most fun. It’s the place that I would choose to return to someday. I did put the camera to use on occasion but I was having too much fun “being part of the story” rather than “telling the story”. I was being the tourist with my camera not the artist. When I get home to review the images, I may have some regrets about that. However, I did collect some great memories.
The story of this trip to date is about the connections that we have made with other travellers(back packers). I suppose it’s a natural thing to happen since English language and travel is our common denominators. We tend to gravitate towards each other for that reason. We end up swapping travel tales and travel advice.
Now, I know it may be politically incorrect to say this but I think we travellers trust advice from other travellers, rather than the locals. The locals are usually “on the take” with high pressure sales techniques, at least in the touristic areas. So, getting non-biased advice on places to stay or places to eat… I trust the traveller who has been in the area a while. That is another catalyst that draws other travellers together. Trust.
Don’t get me wrong, I DO want to make connections with local people but it’s proven very difficult with the language barrier. However, I did meet one waiter on the tourist side Hue that wasn’t “on the take”. It was refreshing. We had a pleasant conversation after we ate the dinner he served us. Loung was a university student studying English. He told us that the food was cheaper where the locals lived. Of course, he was right. We went for a long walk around the local’s side of town after visiting the citadel. It was a relief to be able to walk without somebody trying to sell me silk paintings or motorbike ride. There is never any English on the local’s side of any town so hand gestures and smiles are used to communicate.
Anyways, we have made connections with many other travellers. There are too many to type about. It’s been kinda like being part of a community at times with the main community hall being a Hostel or bar in the back packer part of town. Hostels are always lively and have a great vibe.We swap stories and experiences over beer or dinner. On occasion, we would choose to travel a leg of a journey together. Chatting to somebody on a boat, bus, or train always makes the journey shorter. Sometimes travellers are heading in the same direction and will re-connect in the following city.
Hearing stories from people from other parts of the world are always interesting. When hearing their stories and backgrounds, there seems to be a common theme. Travellers seem to have a “live for the moment” attitude more so than the regular 9-5 people who worry about how much pension that they have built up. Trust me, I am one of those people. Luckily, my occupation allows me a lot of time off to take a journey on occasion.
On a final note, I have known some people who think about travelling abroad for a period of time but are afraid to because they don’t have a companion to share the experience. I suggest to them: Go anyways! You will meet tons of people along your journey. You may end up travelling with several other people. Meeting people while traveling seems so much easier than at home where the rat race rules our lives. It’s kinda sad really. We rarely make new connections at home but abroad they seem to fall into your lap. Anyways, for those people who have considered traveling… don’t be afraid to go alone. Just GO! You will connect with many people and create many memories.






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